Hello, Let me be honest, funny word to hear on a dating profile, I'm a 32 year old man who is tired of being alone. I am looking for a connection. I am looking for a mutually beneficial relationship built on respect for the other. I hate how we have these strict definitions of how relationships should operate and just get to know you. The benefits will come with time even if it's an hour at a coffee shop talking about our favorite movies. Activity and working out: I'm not a gym rat but I do like to stay active for me that means running, biking, and occaisionally lifting some weights. More often than not I enjoy a good walk more than a long run. I love watching seas of television shows, CSI, Burn Notice, Justified, s of Anarchy are some of my favorites. I also have a monstrous collection of movies some of which I haven't watched all of yet. Music - I'm all over the place it's ridiculous I like , hip-hop, jazz, rock, heavy metal, new age, etc. My iPod ranges from Frank Sinatra to Godsmack to Metallica to Dr. Dre to OutKast and the oddity goes on and on. Sexually, I would like to give more pleasure than I receive. Example back massages, using your favorite toy or my own hands. Any other creative ways to give pleasure at the time. That's all in good time though. I appreciate responses to any correspondence even if it's "I'm not interested" it at least shows you can be decent when you don't have to be. Overall I am a generally intelligent, mature, well-adjusted man. I will treat you the way you treat me. It's as simple as I can get. I believe in karma and, call me old-fashioned, the "golden rule". If you have read this far thank you for taking time out of your day and getting to know me. If you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask.

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a woman who wants a connection. Call it what you will a long-term relationship, friends with benefits, just friends, it's all in the same vein of getting to know the other more intimately.

First I like to start off with e-mails and chat. Either one is fine I like both to be honest especially when we both might be busy. If we find we like each other then let's meet.

Second I like to start out small and low pressure. Coffee or something like that public place for conversation. If you have another idea I would be interested to hear it. Hiking, climbing, shopping, all are completely viable.

Everything after that is up to two people: YOU and ME.

A little secret about me or for most men. Don't be afraid to take the first step it never hurts. You won't hurt my feelings for messaging me. I might take notice and try a little harder to get and keep your affections.

I will promise you one thing I am NOT here to dominate, coerce, harass, intimidate, or bully you into sex. It's not right and not fair. It won't happen on the internet and it won't happen in person.

Lastly, I don't mind being a gentlemen, being polite, holding doors open, pulling out your chair, or calling you the day after a date to say thank you. It all boils down to mutual respect and the golden rule.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Metallica, Linkin Park, Kanye West

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